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Wave of advocacy against domestic and family violence that started in Ballina
Wave of advocacy against domestic and family violence that started in Ballina
By Sarah Waters
Domestic violence is an epidemic in Australia, but past President of The Rotary Club of Ballina on Richmond Dave Harmon is drawing support from all corners of the country – and abroad – to tackle the issue head on.
The grim reality of the country’s domestic violence statistics were highlighted last month, following the death of 28-year-old NSW childcare worker Molly Ticehurst, who was killed by her ex-partner.
She was the 25th women to die from gender-based violence in Australia this year.
The Federal Government has since announced a suite of funding measures to target the escalating crisis, including an investment of $925m over five years to permanently establish the Leaving Violence Payment.
Mr Harmon said there will always be a need to support people escaping domestic and family violence, but he believes preventing it is the long-term solution.
For the past six years, since his friend’s sister was killed by her partner, Mr Harmon has rallied together rotary clubs from across the country to address domestic violence at a grassroots level.
Dave Harmon, front left, has led the ‘Rotary Says NO to Domestic and Family Violence’ campaign
“I just remember sitting there (at the memorial service) thinking this is bloody crazy, what’s going on, what could I do,” he said.
“It was 2018 and I was the incoming president of The Rotary Club of Ballina on Richmond and I felt like this was my call to action.”
At a local Rotary club board meeting, Mr Harmon explained he felt as though Rotary needed to connect with the community and what’s relevant in today’s society.
The board all agreed there was probably no cause more relevant than the shocking prevalence of domestic and family violence in Australia.
Rotary formed partnerships with the NSW Police and local agencies in Ballina to discuss their ‘Rotary Says NO to Domestic and Family Violence’ campaign and they all got behind it.
Now in November each year, Mr Harmon coordinates the Domestic and Family Violence Community Walk through Cherry and River Streets in Ballina to raise awareness about the crisis.
Hundreds of people have shown up each year since the walk started in 2019 and it has gone on to become a national – and international – movement.
Last year during 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence, 110 events and activities were held by Rotary clubs throughout Australia.
About 1300 Rotary clubs from 16 countries have also followed The Rotary Club of Ballina on Richmond and actively participate in the ‘Rotary Says NO to Domestic and Family Violence’ campaign.
Mr Harmon saw the opportunity to take the campaign abroad when he became a Rotary District Governor last year.
He presented the idea that Rotary Zone 8, which includes rotary clubs in Australia, New Zealand and several Pacific Islands, combine together to raise awareness and advocate against domestic and family violence.
“It was fully endorsed by them all,” he said.
“It was the first time in over 40 years that we had a common purpose or cause in our rotary zone.
“That shows you how connected we feel about this cause.”
And, at a local level, Cherry St Sports group have helped to fund 1000 free shirts for the Purple Friday campaign.
The joint initiative between The Rotary Club of Ballina on Richmond and Cherry St Sports has seen more than 90 businesses in Ballina, schools, council and sport organisations all wear purple t-shirts with the ‘Rotary Say No to Domestic Violence’ slogan each Friday.
The Rotary Club of Ballina on Richmond run a community event with Ballina Shire Council to help combat Domestic and Family Violence, from left, retired Detective Sergeant Damian Loone, CEO of Cherry St Sports Tere Sheehan, Ballina Shire Mayor Sharon Cadwallader and Rotarians David and Robyn Harmon
Mr Harmon said it kept the issue of domestic and family violence in the spotlight, so women felt seen, heard and supported.
“Some of the discussions that have happened in our town in Ballina have been very, very powerful,” he said.
“A local hairdresser here in town, who wore the purple t-shirt, had a couple of women come in one day and discussed them being current victims of family violence.
“They hadn’t told anyone before.”
Despite the groundswell of support for the campaign here, and abroad, Mr Harmon said stamping out domestic violence won’t happen overnight.
He maintains the focus needs to be on preventing misogynistic behaviours and changing current attitudes.
“I use the analogy of the drunk driving laws that came in, in the late 1970s in New South Wales.
“It took 20 to 30 years of increased penalties and campaigning to educate our community about drunk driving.
“Today, if you see someone getting into a car drunk most of us will either ring the police or do something about it.
“We also need to step up and call it out when we see disrespectful behaviour happening towards a family member, a friend or when we’re out socially.
“But prevention is the long-term way out of this.”
Mr Harmon and his wife Robyn have helped to introduce Love Bites, a Respectful Relationships Education Program for young people into local schools.
It equips young people with the knowledge about communicating mindfully, warning signs of abusive behaviour, power in relationships and responding to concerns as bystanders.
If you need support or assistance with domestic and family violence call: 1800 RESPECT or visit 1800respect.org.au
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