Jeff Gibbs
As Australia prepares to introduce a nationwide social media ban for under-16s from December 10, many children are anxious about losing touch with their friends and daily online routines. The legislation requires major platforms — including TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube and Reddit — to take reasonable steps to stop underage users from creating accounts.
While the move aims to protect children from harmful online content, experts say the real test will happen at home. According to Associate Professor Lesley-Anne Ey, a child safety and wellbeing researcher at the University of South Australia, parents will play a central role in helping kids adjust to life with fewer screens — and in keeping them socially connected in healthier ways.
“Many children and teens have grown up communicating through photos, emojis, filters and short videos. Apps like Snapchat and TikTok are part of their social identity,” Assoc Prof Ey explains. “When the ban kicks in, some kids will feel like they’re losing their social lifeline.”
She encourages parents to show empathy and maintain open, age-appropriate conversations. “Invite questions, acknowledge their feelings, and brainstorm alternatives,” she says. “If they enjoy TikTok dances, maybe try Just Dance. If they want to chat, use safe group messaging apps or multiplayer games where they can connect securely.”
Assoc Prof Ey emphasises that education and reassurance are key. Parents should discuss online safety, including how to protect personal information, behave respectfully, and think carefully before posting. “Once something is online, it’s permanent,” she warns. “Encourage kids to ask, ‘Would I say this to someone’s face?’ before they post.”
The new restrictions come amid growing concerns about cyberbullying, sextortion, and online predators. “This ban isn’t about overprotection — it’s a necessary safeguard,” she says. “Parents must educate themselves about the platforms their children use and maintain ongoing, non-judgmental discussions.”
Importantly, adults must also model healthy screen habits. Limiting personal phone use, especially during family time, can help set predictable routines and reinforce balance. “Avoid excess screen time yourself,” says Assoc Prof Ey. “Create tech-free times at dinner or before bed. Show your kids how fun it can be to reconnect offline — board games, family walks, or even bike rides after dinner.”
She believes the change could benefit families long-term. “The convenience of screens has taken over our lives,” she says. “Perhaps this is our chance to wind back the clock and rebuild real connections — for our sake, and for our kids’ wellbeing.”
What Parents Can Do
- Stay informed: Follow new trends and platforms to understand where kids might move next.
- Educate on safety: Teach children to protect personal details and report uncomfortable online experiences.
- Keep conversations open: Encourage honest chats about what they see and feel online.
- Show empathy: Acknowledge their frustration and reassure them that safety comes first.
- Model balance: Demonstrate healthy screen habits and establish tech-free family times.
- Be consistent: Maintain predictable routines and limits.
- Encourage offline fun: Support sports, hobbies, and family activities that strengthen social bonds.
