Clarence Valley News

Abuse Victim Speaks Out

Published

2 years ago

28 July 2022

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Abuse Victim Speaks Out

By Tim Howard

A victim of twice convicted paedophile John William Hardy wants more victims to tell their stories to help them deal with their trauma and to ensure he stays in jail for the rest of his life.
Hardy, 71, was convicted in Adelaide earlier this year on charges of molesting five young boys on Kangaroo Island between 2002 and 2019. He was sentenced to 15 years jail, with a 12-year non-parole period.
In 1991 Hardy was jailed after he was found guilty of molesting at least 15 boys in Maclean.
One of those Maclean victims is James de Dassel. He was just seven years old when the abuse started.
Mr de Dassell, now in his 40s, runs a successful business and is a father of two young children.
He wants to make sure Hardy can never harm any more children, but he also wants victims to know the relief they can find through telling their stories.
“It’s important people in the Clarence Valley know that since Hardy was released from jail in the late 90s he has been abusing children again, this time on Kangaroo Island. And now he is in jail again,” Mr de Dassel said.
It emerged in evidence in the South Australian trial that Hardy may have abused at least 25 boys during his period in the Clarence Valley, but Mr de Dassel said it was likely to be many more.
“In my opinion the number of victims could be in the triple figures,” he said. “No-one knows for sure when he started abusing, and I know for a fact many of his victims have not come forward to tell their story.”
He said NSW Police were keen to hear from Hardy’s victims even though decades had elapsed since his NSW conviction.
“I know of three NSW victims who have given statements to police,” he said. “If he ever gets out of jail in South Australia, he will be arrested the same day and extradited to NSW to face more charges.
“He should never be out of jail again.”
Mr de Dassel has had his own mental health issues and has suffered from depression and anxiety.
“I have shared my story many times with close friends and family and have sought therapy form professional counsellors over many years. I think that has been really important for me, he said.”
The damage caused by Hardy goes deeper, as his older brother, Paul, was also abused by Hardy for many years.
After a long struggle to come to terms with his experiences, Paul de Dassel lost his life in a state of psychosis, devastating his tight-knit family.
While he’s determined to make sure Hardy remains behind bars, Mr de Dassel said he wanted victims to know the therapeutic value of telling their stories and getting the horror of their experience out into the open.
“I know there’s a stigma about being an abuse victim for many adult men ,” he said.
“There are a lot of people out there battling drug and alcohol addictions, mental health and depression or worse, taking their lives like my older brother.”
He said the act of speaking out was the first step in taking control of the trauma that stayed inside them.
“It’s always with you, it will never go away, but having someone listen to your story makes it real,” he said.
“It can be anyone. They don’t have to go public to the media. It can be a family member, a close friend, a police officer or a counsellor.” He said it was important for victims to realise there was no shame in their experience, that the perpetrator was wholly responsible for what occurred.
“You’ve got it inside your head, going round and round and round,” he said.
“It affects your whole life, your work, your friends, relationships, intimacy.
“When you have someone listening to you tell those terrible things it’s like having someone share your burden.”
Mr de Dassel said Hardy came into his family’s life when they moved from Canberra to Maclean in 1982 to take over the BP Service Station and caravan park on the edge of town.
Hardy was a resident in the park and very quickly began to ingratiate himself into the family’s life.
“Dad had to stay in Canberra for a few months to finish off some building projects, so it was up to mum to run the business and look after 7 of her 8 children who were still at school,” he said.
“When John Hardy would come over offering to take a couple of the kids camping or fishing, it seemed like a godsend,” he said.
Hardy seemed the perfect neighbour. He was employed as a council ranger, was a member of Apex and had a truck and a boat.
“It was a perfect set up for him, he could take kids away camping or driving in his truck and it would have seemed ok,” Mr de Dassel said.
“He had his own boat so he could take kids out fishing. That was part of his grooming.”
Mr de Dassel was at a loss to know how parents could identify offenders like Hardy, who replicated his grooming behaviour when he settled in Kangaroo Island soon after he got out of jail in NSW.
“It’s a hard one. The kids that he was grooming and abusing were only 6, 7, 8 years of age; at that age we trust all adult figures as though they’re our own parents, and maybe what is happening has the approval of our own parents. At that age we see someone that is trusted by our parents as someone that we can find trustworthy.”
“I can’t tell you how many times I was abused, but it happened many many times over many years.”
Mr de Dassel said people needed to be aware paedophiles were more prevalent in the community than people suspected.
“Paedophiles are rampant in the community, it’s something rife in communities across the planet,” he said.
Mr de Dassel would be happy to see an online register of paedophiles so parents could check up on people who were spending time with their children.
“I don’t know how you spot them,” he said. “That’s their craft, to be able to operate in the community without drawing attention to themselves.”
But he warned the danger was more often close at hand.
“It’s not a stranger grabbing a kid and taking them away in a car,” he said. “Mostly it’s a family member or a friend of the family.”
But he said there was some positive signs as community attitudes change.
“Attitudes are changing, people are becoming more understanding of victims and encouraging abuse victims to tell their stories,” he said.
“More people are speaking out so they can get the therapy they need to help them get the quality of life they deserve.”

Note
Local coverage of the trial in 1991 of convicted paedophile John William Hardy, jailed after molesting at least 15 boys in the Lower Clarence during the 1980s. Hardy is in jail again after he was convicted of sexual assaults of five boys on Kangaroo Island, South Australia between 2002 and 2019.

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Our Seniors Are Tops!

Published

3 days ago

17 April 2024

Liam

Our Seniors Are Tops!

State Member for Clarence Richie Williamson has shown his appreciation for the invaluable contributions of seniors in our community by presenting the inaugural Seniors Achievement Award in Lawrence today.

During this year’s Senior’s Week celebrations, Mr. Williamson called upon the community to nominate individuals and groups who exemplify dedication and commitment to enhancing the Richmond and Clarence valleys.

“I was thrilled to receive numerous nominations showcasing the remarkable efforts of seniors and senior’s groups,” Mr. Williamson said. “These individuals and organisations consistently go above and beyond, supporting various aspects of community life, from maintaining community halls to providing essential transport services.”

The first Seniors Achievement Award was awarded to Connect You Too, a not-for-profit community-based organisation dedicated to enhancing the lives of residents in the Clarence Valley. Connect You Too offers a vital range of services, including transportation for people of all ages, meal delivery in Iluka, Maclean, and Yamba, non-emergency medical transport, shopping excursions, and social outings. With a team of 60 volunteers and staff, Connect You Too plays a pivotal role in fostering community well-being.

“I extend my heartfelt congratulations to the board, volunteers, and staff of Connect You Too,” remarked Mr. Williamson. “Their outstanding commitment to serving seniors and the broader community is truly commendable, making them deserving recipients of this prestigious achievement award.”

Mr. Williamson anticipates presenting additional achievement awards across the Richmond and Clarence Valleys in the forthcoming weeks, further acknowledging the exceptional contributions of seniors and senior’s groups.

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Clarence Valley News

Mayor to “eyeball” AG over courthouse hours cut

Published

1 week ago

10 April 2024

Liam

Mayor to “eyeball” AG over courthouse hours cut

By Tim Howard

Clarence Valley mayor Peter Johnstone is brushing up on his diplomatic kung fu, after his fellow councillors voted to have him “eyeball” the NSW Attorney General over a state government decision to cut service hours at Maclean Courthouse.

At its March meeting, the council indicated it was not satisfied with the government’s response to a letter to the Attorney General, Michael Daley, in December 2023, advocating that face to face services at Maclean Courthouse, remain the same.

Instead the parliamentary secretary to the Attorney General, Hugh McDermott’s reply, indicated the cuts to services would remain.

“The Attorney General has asked me to respond on his behalf, Mr McDermott wrote.

“I’m informed that in May 2023, court services in the Department of Communities and justice initiated a change in the level of face to face service delivery at Maclean based on the low level of demand for this service.

“The service was reduced from five days per week to five days per month.”

Crs Debrah Novak and Ian Tiley combined to provide a motion to stiffen the council’s opposition to the decision.

After fine tuning of the wording, the council settled on the motion: That council:

notes the report.
makes direct representations to the NSW Attorney General, seeking support of the Member for

Clarence, Hon Richie Williamson, objecting most strongly to the service hours reductions at Maclean Court House, and the mayor seek to meet the minister to convey these concerns.

Cr Novak said the decision was clearly not in the interests of Clarence Valley people.

“We have the key issues here in front of us in black and white,” she said.

“So this motion now is to go back to the NSW Attorney General and the minister with Richie on one side, the mayor on the other side to the minister saying we’re not happy with what you’ve determined.

“What you think is in our best interest because at the end of the day, it is not in our LGAs best interest to have this service downgraded.

“It’s in the state government’s best interest because it’s a cost saving measure.”

Cr Tiley said the council had little to lose and a lot to gain.

“It’s a matter of great concern, especially to the people of the Lower Clarence, as Cr Novak has well articulated that yet another important service will be lost,” he said.

“Perhaps the next one’s Ulmarra Ferry if we meekly acquiesce on this. What next will we lose?”

The approach was not to the liking of all councillors, including unlikely allies on this matter, Crs Karen Toms and Greg Clancy.

Cr Debrah Novak is leading the charge to keep Maclean Courthouse open five days a week, moving that the council confronts the NSW Attorney General Michael Daley over plans to cut hours of service.

Cr Toms worried the motion made it seem the council was throwing a “tanty” when a ruling didn’t go its way.

“I find this a little interesting that we’ve actually been there done this,” she said.

“We’ve got a letter back which tells us the reasons, but we as the local government council have decided we don’t like the reasons and we’re going to have another go and we’re going to get up face to face with the Attorney General.”

Cr Clancy said he was more concerned that continued opposition was “pushing a snowball uphill”.

“Are we just putting our finger in the dyke?” he said. “Because unfortunately, the modern world is moving in the direction of less face to face, more phone or internet connection.

“The response is fairly straightforward.

“And it’s to do with the demand and the cost of keeping it open when there’s no demand.

“It would be nice to keep everything opened forever. But I really think that we’ve taken this far enough.”

Other councillors showed more fight.

Cr Steve Pickering said cutting courthouse hours was just a start to further cuts.

“It’s to cut to cut the courthouse hours from five days a week to five days a month is the start,’ he said.

“Obviously, the next step will be zero days per month and then everybody in Yamba and Maclean will be traveling to Grafton to use the courthouse there, while it’s still open.

“Who knows? In two years time will we still going to have a courthouse in Grafton?

“Maybe we’ll be traveling to Coffs Harbour, but as a council we need to stand up for our community it’s not about having a tantrum.

“It’s about it’s about doing what our community would expect us to do.

“And when we receive a response that we’re not happy with, we need we need to challenge it.”

But Cr Alison Whaites disputed that Grafton could lose its courthouse, because of the presence of the new jail at near South Grafton.

“Because we’ve got Serco here and it’s busy every day I drive past and it’s packed,” she said.

‘So anyway, so I want to vote against his motion and I really don’t see the point of moving forward with this and the mayor going down and speaking to that person.”

Deputy mayor Jeff Smith said he supported the motion because he believe the community expected its leaders to fight for them.

“I was I was voted in to be an advocate for the community,” he said. “And there’s often complaints around the LGA that are were very Grafton centric.

“Well, in this case, we’re fighting for something that’s in Maclean.

“And I’m sick of this valley losing out all the time. It loses out to Coffs and it loses out to Lismore and seems to lose out to Byron Bay constantly.

“Let’s just fight it. Let’s have another go.”

The mayor made a rare foray into debate, arguing the council needed to stand up for the region.

“I think we should go for it, shouldn’t we? he said. “I need to brush up on my martial arts skills.

“We should be fighting for our community and we need to fight for our community because otherwise we’ll be seen as a soft touch.”

Summing up, Cr Novak said in the past decade the region had lost many services to Coffs Harbour and Lismore.

“What that actually means to those people because we’ve lost those services, is people now have to travel,” she said.

“So there is a cost imposed to those people who need to access those services.

“We have a high rate of people who don’t have access to computers, who don’t have access or the skills to access computers. All that sort of stuff.

“That just pays puts the onus back on to the potential clients and I think that’s unfair.

“And and we just need to be out there fighting for what we believe is a service that should remain here in the Lower Clarence Valley.”

Council voted for the motion 6-3 with Crs Toms, Clancy and Whaites against.

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Seniors encouraged to get moving this April Falls Month

Published

1 week ago

10 April 2024

Liam

Seniors encouraged to get moving this April Falls Month

Older Australians in Northern New South Wales are being encouraged to get physically active this April, to help build their strength and maintain their independence.

Better Balance for Fall Prevention is the theme of this year’s April Falls Month, an annual event held throughout April supported by the NSW Fall Prevention and Healthy Ageing Network to encourage older adults to become more active and reduce falls.

Locally, exercise and dance classes for people aged over 50 are underway in Alstonville, Casino, Grafton, Lismore, Tweed Heads, Wardell, Yamba and across the Northern Rivers.

Health Promotion Manager, Elayne Mitchell said staying physically active is the single most important thing we can do to stay independent as we age.

“As we get older, our bodies lose muscle strength and coordination, so the more active we remain, the better chance we have of maintaining our physical function,” Ms Mitchell said.

“Improving strength and balance in our legs allows us to complete regular daily activities more easily, including getting up and down stairs, in and out of cars, negotiating uneven surfaces and reducing the risk of falling.

“Older people benefit from regular tai chi, group exercise programs, gym sessions, community-based falls prevention programs such as Stepping On, or simple exercises at home to improve muscle strength and balance.

“Research has also shown that regular exercise can reduce falls in older people by 23 per cent, but slowly building up high-challenge balance exercises can increase the effects of exercise by up to 40 per cent.”

NNSWLHD is partnering with Rotary Clubs across the District to provide pop-up Falls Prevention Awareness information stalls, where you can find out about falls prevention and healthy ageing.

Locations

Friday 5 April, 10am-4pm, Lismore Square, Uralba and Brewster St, Lismore
Sunday 7 April, 8am-midday, Iluka-Woombah Community Markets, Middle Street, Woombah
Thursday 11 April, 9am-2pm, Alstonville Plaza, 93 Main St, Alstonville
Friday 12 April – Sunday 14 April, 9am – 3pm, Bunnings, 2 Bruxner Hwy, Lismore
Friday 12 April – Sunday 14 April, 9am – 3pm, Bunnings, River Street and Horizon Dr, West Ballina
Friday 19 April, 10am-4pm, Lismore Square, Uralba and Brewster St, Lismore

The Clinical Excellence Commission (CEC) has collaborated with the NSW Fall Prevention and Healthy Ageing Network to produce a range of April Falls resources for patients, families, carers and health staff.

Fall Prevention information is also available on the CEC website.

To find local physical activity and healthy lifestyle programs, including fall prevention programs, visit the Active and Healthy exercise directory. Information and advice to support older adults to be more active is also available on the Active and Healthy website. This includes home-based exercise circuits designed for beginners to follow along at your own pace from the comfort of your own home.

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